Balancing Masculine & Feminine Energies

Balancing Masculine &

Feminine Energies

Our Masculine & Feminine Energies

We all have both masculine and feminine energies in us, with the masculine energies being more action and protective, whilst the feminine are more creative and nurturing. 

To feel happy, content and balanced within ourselves we need to have a balance between these energies. 

We will not be able to create if we are too in the action energy and not spending quiet time letting the inspiration flow in. On the other hand, not taking any action means we don't move forwards and not having our protective instincts up means we can be abused.

The balance of masculine to feminine energies will be different for each person depending on their personality and gender. Alpha males will naturally have more masculine energies active than the nurturing female and this is how nature intended it to be. When we look at animals, the male is the hunter and provider and protects his family, but if a predator tries to attack the female with her babies whilst the male is out hunting then they'll see the masculine protective energies of the female leap into action!

Out of Blance Masculine & Feminine Energies

When our masculine and feminine energies are not in balance for us and our personality we are going to feel at odds with ourself and life. 

If we are naturally a very empathic, loving, caring female, but we've been hurt and let down, we can be living in our masculine energies to protect ourselves from future hurt, but this feels foreign to us and like something we have to do but not who we really are. 

Likewise an alpha male who naturally wants to provide and protect his family and can't for some reason, maybe due to accident, injury or health issues, is most likely going to unworthy and like he is not fulfilling his role, so other energy work may be needed to feel worthy and good about yourself to fully balance your masculine and feminine energies. 

The more time we spend out of alignment with our natural balance of masculine and feminine energies, the more that becomes our normal way of living and being, even though internally we don't align with it. When our masculine and feminine​ energies are out of balance then we are out of balance, we are not in tune with our inner selves, our intuition and guidance and that makes it harder to acknowledge and see how out of balance we have become. 

Childhood trauma can cause children to withdraw and this will adversely affect their natural balance of their masculine and feminine​ energies. If this isn't addressed and healed in childhood then they will grow up and experience their whole lives in an out of balance energy, which will give them a distorted perspective of themselves, who they are and interpreting what they feel and how they make sense of what they are feeling, or not feeling because they've shut down their feelings. 

It has been a society norm to tell boys not to cry, it's sissy etc, but causes them to bottle in their emotions and not express them and suppressed emotions are very damaging to our emotional, physical and spiritual well being. Likewise, society has favoured and pushed the sexualisation of females, with many woman believing that they are their bodies and that they can use their body to get what they want. This is a very hollow way of living, not finding your personality and talents and living as your true self. 

So there may be childhood healing that needs to be addressed before we can heal and balance our masculine and feminine​ energies, but for those who have been doing this healing work and are ready for inner balancing work, I have new audios for this topic.